Monday, June 16, 2014

Happy Father's Day!


Happy Father's Day to all of the Dad's out there. You have an incredibly important role in your family, offering guidance, being our rock, sometimes the disciplinarian, often bringing humor and carrying the family on your shoulders, sometimes literally. You consistently sacrifice for your family and do it willingly without complaining and usually without giving it a second thought. You do so much and rarely ever accept the thanks you deserve. Be sure to give the Fathers in your life a big thank you today!

I am forever grateful to this man who has known me for 15 years. He has seen me through many phases of life and somehow through all of it I was lucky enough to convince him to marry me. Every. Single. Day I look at him and think about how thankful I am to share this life with a loving, bug-killing, considerate, goofy, loyal, Mr. Fix-it, compassionate, protector.

To my better half, thank you for the hundreds of things you do every day for our family and the million and one things you have done over the past 7 years that I can never and will never be able to sufficiently thank you for. You are my everything.
                                                 
                                                 



Saturday, June 14, 2014

Weekend Roundup 6.14.14


What are you up to this weekend? I have a bridal shower for a dear firend and we are of course celebrating someone's second Fathers Day. Other than that i am hoping to watch some of the World Cup and catch up on some house things before we start our wedding whirlwind next weekend. I don't know about you but I love to spend some quiet time on the weekends catching up on blogs and news from the week. I don't get to do it as often as I would like but when I do, i like to make it count. A few things that caught my attention this week.


Sweet story about a man remembering D-Day


Amending the requirements to win the Triple Crown


I believe that we will win! and some World Cup commercials


10 marriage tips every wife needs to hear


Top 2014 vacation destinations (all these are top of my list)


Things to do with a diaper container (my favorite is plastic grocery bag storage)


How to put a toddler to bed in 100 easy steps


Bill Murray photo bomb


National park maps and make your hydrangeas last longer






Friday, June 13, 2014

Recipe - Overnight French Toast

We are hosting some of our best friends this weekend. They are getting married later this year and are visiting for a bridal shower thrown by my MIL and for some boy time at a couple baseball games. When hosting guests I always want to make a good breakfast. My pinterest and recipe books are filled with tons of amazing breakfast recipes but I often go back to an old standard because it is just. so.good.

This has become a very special recipe in our family and is something I just sort of came up with when we had some stale bread. This recipe is perfect for when you need something with very little day-of prep time. You can make this a day ahead and just toss it in the oven. The cook time is an hour and a half but well worth it and quite doable if you are already up prepping for guests or like me tending to your child who has decided 5am is a reasonable hour to start the day.

I hope you and your guests enjoy this old faithful recipe as much as we do!!



To make this glorious recipe all you have to do is tear up a loaf of bread (or slice in to 1 inch squares) about 24 hours before you want to serve this dish. I prefer challah because it dries out nicely and is slightly sweet . Place the challah in an oven safe baking dish, cover it with a paper towel and set it out for 8-24 hours. This helps the bread dry out and allows it to soak up more of the egg/milk mixture, you want to maximize the sponge-ability of this bread. 




The night before you plan to serve, gather your ingredients (pinch of salt not pictured)

Vanilla...


And while we are on the topic of vanilla please try to use a good one, it really makes all the difference. The downside is it can be pretty pricey. My mom gave us quite a selection of fancy ones a couple Christmas' ago but if she hadn't I would most certainly be making my own. I think this bottle is around $15 so here is a link for how to make the good stuff on the cheap, you're welcome :) 

Ok back to to the french toast...Mix 8 eggs with 5 cups of milk or half and half, add the vanilla and a pinch of salt. 

How many of you caught there are only 6 eggs in the bowl below ;)

Pour the egg/milk mixture over the bread and press the bread down in to the pan. Cover this with an airtight wrap and set it in the fridge overnight. 

Bright and early the next morning...

Place the french toast dish in a water bath. To make a water bath get a larger pan (I either use a roasting pan or those cheep-o disposable aluminum pans from the grocery store), set the french toast dish in the pan and add enough very hot tap water to the roasting pan to come an inch up the side of the baking dish. This is standard step in cooking custard and that's basically what you have going in your pan right now with the addition of bread. Cover both dishes with a foil tent, adding two slashes to the foil to let steam escape. Place the pans in a preheated 350 degree oven. After 45 minutes, remove the foil and bake for another 40-45 minutes.

 

Enjoy!

What is your go-to recipe for guests? Is there anything special you do to help them feel at home?



Monday, June 9, 2014

Getting Lost in the Chaos





Our family is getting ready for yet another wedding this weekend (we have 10 this year!!) and I can't help but think about the amazing, evolving and ever changing entity that is a marriage. We all know marriage is two people coming together as one to share a life yada, yada but I think so many people commit to a marriage and don't really know what they are getting in to. An engagement which used to be spent preparing for a marriage is now spent planning for a wedding, planning which used to happen in a matter of months happens in a year or sometimes two! It is all so commercialized and pinterested it seems many young brides (and their families) have started to miss the boat, to varying degrees, on what marriage truly is for and what it is actually about. I know I was guilty of getting swept up in the process, thank goodness pinterest was not around yet or I would probably still be planning my wedding! 

The tricky thing is, while people almost always get married for the same general reasons, a formal commitment to share a life, what a marriage looks like for one person is completely different for another person.  There is no one size fits all definition of marriage. So here is where it comes back to the people in the bride's and groom's life to prepare their minds and hearts for marriage. It does not matter how long you have been married or whether or not you are still married, I am sure everyone who has been through it has at least one if not many more things they learned, were surprised by, hurt by, wished they did better and so on.

Knowledge is power and future newlyweds need it. Marriage is a commitment and a mindset, a state of being. 

At the wedding this weekend I will be reading something the bride asked me to write. I am so honored she included me and truly humbled she wants my two cents during her ceremony. I really had to ask her multiple times if she was sure she wanted to hear from me, a lowly 3.5 year veteran of marriage.  Didn't she want to hear from someone who was married a long time? Maybe an aunt, her parents, a God parent? What could I really bring to the table? Although as I thought about it, I realized we who are newer to this marriage gig are the perfect people to offer advice to newlyweds; real, honest, and relevant advice. We can still remember the first few weeks, months, and years of our marriages, relatively speaking we are still one of those newlyweds and can identify with the early marriage adjustment, trials and challenges our friends may soon experience. 

This request certainly gave me a really good chance to look at my own marriage. Something I probably should have done more after a year of raising our first child and making a big move to a new home. I will post the reading in the coming days but want to give the bride a chance to hear it first.

What about you, did you get caught up in the planning process for a wedding? When was the last time you took an honest look at your marriage? What advice would you give someone on their wedding day? 



Friday, June 6, 2014

Brave Beginnings

Why hello there! I have had a desire to do this for quite some time now, waning back and forth, back and forth. In fact, I started writing posts a few years ago now but haven't had the...well guts I guess, to publish them.

I see them right now, sitting in my queue, almost 50 of them! Many were written as a stream of consciousness, but nonetheless discuss topics I want to share and with a little (sometimes a lot of) editing I am ready to take the leap. Blogging is a funny thing, I am not sure why I feel this immense pressure. I am not trying to be a blogging great with thousands of followers, I only intend for this to be a small outlet in my crazy day. At a minimum this space will document my family's journey, our adventures, trails, celebrations and some tips and tricks we pick up along the way. I hope this becomes a place to be inspired and find a laugh, draw strength and find a quiet moment, a place to share my thoughts and learnings, and sometimes just pretty pictures or things that make me smile. Put simply, I hope this can be a place to find the strength we need to navigate through the challenges awaiting us.


As I get ready to hit "publish" I feel great peace that I am finally starting a journey that feels meant to be. I encourage those of you reading this to do something brave today, something challenging, something that catches your breath and takes strength because in the end, this life is all about growing and changing and you cant get there without being brave, digging deep, and diving in.